Comments on: Jealousy http://www.alvinchong.net/2008/02/03/jealousy/ Fri, 05 Dec 2008 14:08:28 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.2 By: cibol http://www.alvinchong.net/2008/02/03/jealousy/#comment-1180 cibol Wed, 13 Feb 2008 14:30:14 +0000 http://www.alvinchong.net/2008/02/03/jealousy/#comment-1180 P/S : I'm a guy .. duh! :) but really, like bongkersz said .. usually the opposite happens. most of the time. this is a very rare case. P/S : I’m a guy .. duh! :) but really, like bongkersz said .. usually the opposite happens. most of the time. this is a very rare case.

]]> By: Clare http://www.alvinchong.net/2008/02/03/jealousy/#comment-1179 Clare Wed, 13 Feb 2008 02:18:03 +0000 http://www.alvinchong.net/2008/02/03/jealousy/#comment-1179 So based on Bongkersz's comment, you are the girl in the relationship and your girl is the guy in the relationship lor, right????? Rriiiiiigghhhtt??????? *lari kuat kuat* So based on Bongkersz’s comment, you are the girl in the relationship and your girl is the guy in the relationship lor, right????? Rriiiiiigghhhtt??????? *lari kuat kuat*

]]> By: bongkersz http://www.alvinchong.net/2008/02/03/jealousy/#comment-1176 bongkersz Tue, 12 Feb 2008 16:56:32 +0000 http://www.alvinchong.net/2008/02/03/jealousy/#comment-1176 er, i used to get that kind of complains before.. and i responded the same way like your girl did, quoting along the lines - insecure, clingy, etc. er, i didn't know guys care so much about attentions, talking on the phones, spending time together, receiving praises. most of the time you only hear it from girls. guess men and women are not that different afterall heh? p/s: i'm a guy. er, i used to get that kind of complains before.. and i responded the same way like your girl did, quoting along the lines - insecure, clingy, etc. er, i didn’t know guys care so much about attentions, talking on the phones, spending time together, receiving praises. most of the time you only hear it from girls. guess men and women are not that different afterall heh?

p/s: i’m a guy.

]]> By: cibol http://www.alvinchong.net/2008/02/03/jealousy/#comment-1174 cibol Tue, 12 Feb 2008 14:24:46 +0000 http://www.alvinchong.net/2008/02/03/jealousy/#comment-1174 Chill for a while, lean back and just enjoy the melody. That's what I always do. I mean yeah, relationships sometimes hit high and low notes. Normal la. We all have been there. Not easy maintaining a relationship but then that's the beauty part of it. It is where both worlds come together and try to deal with - comes whatever may la. Since you said this is just a normal relationship issue so I treat it like a relationships issues post la. no big deal hor .. Cheers! Chill for a while, lean back and just enjoy the melody. That’s what I always do. I mean yeah, relationships sometimes hit high and low notes. Normal la. We all have been there. Not easy maintaining a relationship but then that’s the beauty part of it. It is where both worlds come together and try to deal with - comes whatever may la.

Since you said this is just a normal relationship issue so I treat it like a relationships issues post la. no big deal hor ..

Cheers!

]]> By: Alvin Chong http://www.alvinchong.net/2008/02/03/jealousy/#comment-1170 Alvin Chong Tue, 05 Feb 2008 07:37:19 +0000 http://www.alvinchong.net/2008/02/03/jealousy/#comment-1170 <strong> Nicole: I am under the impression that you can be attached at anytime you wanted to. :) fookiat: Come on... not again... I just cannot seem to understand here. I know where you are getting at here and I can understand why you are being utterly defensive without having known the situation better. No matter how I say it, no matter how I put it, to you, I will always be writing bad things about her. I don't know if you can understand my English above. Either my English is really out of this world or you just don't get it. I am going to say this again, sure I feel like this at time and of course it is caused by my girl. I sometimes do hurt her as well. Then again, do you realize this is a part and parcel of a relationship? If you would have noticed as well, I didn't want anyone to misunderstand me and that is why I have stated very clearly at the end that this is not a bashing post. For all you know, I don't mean she is at fault here. It could be that I am just too sensitive and hence feel this way. Fookiat, if you think that I have to think and act like you in a relationship, you are dead wrong. I am not you and my girl is not your girl. We are all different in real life. If you still think I am bad mouthing my girl, if you think I am not entitled to my own feelings, if you think I should act and say like you would, please think through again. My girl and I do not go through life like you and your girl do. If you are telling me that you hadn't been in any conflicts with your girl, then you are either lying or you have a very big, open heart. Again, this is a post sharing my feelings at times and I will again reiterate, I did not say anyone was wrong here but rather what was ticking me in this kinda way. Whatever you wanna think is totally up to you. Most importantly, I have talked it out with my girl and we know where we stand in our relationship. We treat this post like a relationship issue post and nothing personal. </strong>
Nicole: I am under the impression that you can be attached at anytime you wanted to. :)

fookiat: Come on… not again… I just cannot seem to understand here. I know where you are getting at here and I can understand why you are being utterly defensive without having known the situation better.

No matter how I say it, no matter how I put it, to you, I will always be writing bad things about her. I don’t know if you can understand my English above. Either my English is really out of this world or you just don’t get it.

I am going to say this again, sure I feel like this at time and of course it is caused by my girl. I sometimes do hurt her as well. Then again, do you realize this is a part and parcel of a relationship? If you would have noticed as well, I didn’t want anyone to misunderstand me and that is why I have stated very clearly at the end that this is not a bashing post.

For all you know, I don’t mean she is at fault here. It could be that I am just too sensitive and hence feel this way. Fookiat, if you think that I have to think and act like you in a relationship, you are dead wrong. I am not you and my girl is not your girl. We are all different in real life. If you still think I am bad mouthing my girl, if you think I am not entitled to my own feelings, if you think I should act and say like you would, please think through again. My girl and I do not go through life like you and your girl do.

If you are telling me that you hadn’t been in any conflicts with your girl, then you are either lying or you have a very big, open heart. Again, this is a post sharing my feelings at times and I will again reiterate, I did not say anyone was wrong here but rather what was ticking me in this kinda way.

Whatever you wanna think is totally up to you. Most importantly, I have talked it out with my girl and we know where we stand in our relationship. We treat this post like a relationship issue post and nothing personal.

]]> By: fookiat http://www.alvinchong.net/2008/02/03/jealousy/#comment-1169 fookiat Tue, 05 Feb 2008 00:34:48 +0000 http://www.alvinchong.net/2008/02/03/jealousy/#comment-1169 come on... not again... the last thing you ever wanna do is to bad mouth someone you love over the net... no matter how you say it, how you put it, you're just writing bad things about her and there is no way to justify what you did.. don't regret.. ok? come on… not again…

the last thing you ever wanna do is to bad mouth someone you love over the net… no matter how you say it, how you put it, you’re just writing bad things about her and there is no way to justify what you did.. don’t regret.. ok?

]]> By: Nicole http://www.alvinchong.net/2008/02/03/jealousy/#comment-1168 Nicole Sun, 03 Feb 2008 21:00:05 +0000 http://www.alvinchong.net/2008/02/03/jealousy/#comment-1168 Brrrr~~~~ Stop with all the ramblings and mushiness can or not? What about me?!!! ME ME ME !!! I SINGLE U KNOW!!!! Goddamnit. Brrrr~~~~ Stop with all the ramblings and mushiness can or not? What about me?!!! ME ME ME !!! I SINGLE U KNOW!!!!

Goddamnit.

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