Comments on: Is It Too Much To Ask For? http://www.alvinchong.net/2008/01/09/is-it-too-much-to-ask-for/ Fri, 05 Dec 2008 15:59:37 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.2 By: MilesE http://www.alvinchong.net/2008/01/09/is-it-too-much-to-ask-for/#comment-1244 MilesE Tue, 15 Apr 2008 08:52:54 +0000 http://www.alvinchong.net/2008/01/09/is-it-too-much-to-ask-for/#comment-1244 I agree with the few comments above. (To me, anyway) it seems needy if a guy/girl needs to call and report to their gf/bf all the time. I feel smothered.. can't breathe I'm in a relationship such as that. Of course, different people like different things. Do your own thing, whatever, as long as you're happy. But make sure your spose is happy too.. :) I agree with the few comments above. (To me, anyway) it seems needy if a guy/girl needs to call and report to their gf/bf all the time. I feel smothered.. can’t breathe I’m in a relationship such as that. Of course, different people like different things. Do your own thing, whatever, as long as you’re happy. But make sure your spose is happy too.. :)

]]> By: bongkersz http://www.alvinchong.net/2008/01/09/is-it-too-much-to-ask-for/#comment-1177 bongkersz Tue, 12 Feb 2008 17:05:25 +0000 http://www.alvinchong.net/2008/01/09/is-it-too-much-to-ask-for/#comment-1177 call everyday, it feels like a chore, for me. calling for the sack of calling just don't work. worse, i will end up, 'ya? ok.. oh? issit? no lah. er mmm' communication is important, very essential but it must involves both ways. if only one side want to talk, the other don't want, guess no point trying to make small talks. call everyday, it feels like a chore, for me. calling for the sack of calling just don’t work. worse, i will end up, ‘ya? ok.. oh? issit? no lah. er mmm’ communication is important, very essential but it must involves both ways. if only one side want to talk, the other don’t want, guess no point trying to make small talks.

]]> By: Alvin Chong http://www.alvinchong.net/2008/01/09/is-it-too-much-to-ask-for/#comment-1160 Alvin Chong Tue, 22 Jan 2008 06:35:20 +0000 http://www.alvinchong.net/2008/01/09/is-it-too-much-to-ask-for/#comment-1160 <strong> fookiat: No, I am not clingy, yes, I am a bit insecure, but nonetheless, I trust my girl enough to do her own stuff. Yes, communication should be spontaneous instead of a chore. I have never treated it as a chore. Had it been a chore, I wouldn't have called. It's just not me to burden myself with calls if I cannot give a hood. No, I don't treat my calls as, it's the time of the day kinda call. In fact, it is very much the opposite. In fact it is like, it's lunch now, after all that useless work, I can use a break. I WANNA make that call! I WANNA talk to my girl! If I need to sleep now, I WON'T make the call. Why?! Because I DON'T take it as a chore. I don't force myself to call people I don't like to. I WILLINGLY call my girl, because I love her. I make it a point to call her, EVEN for a minute at night before I sleep not because I make it a chore, but rather because I love her and I wanna listen to her sound at least a minute before I sleep. I understand where you are coming from, but before you start advising me, please do know where I am coming from. Trust me or not, that is up to you. Your relationship has grown from 4 - 14 hours you said. With proper communication, people can still break. Without one, it's hard to survive. It's just humans. They start feeling the distance eventually and they eventually feel comfortable with someone closer to them at heart and whom they are able to spill to. Don't trust me? It's alright. Now, you think about it... </strong>
fookiat: No, I am not clingy, yes, I am a bit insecure, but nonetheless, I trust my girl enough to do her own stuff.

Yes, communication should be spontaneous instead of a chore. I have never treated it as a chore. Had it been a chore, I wouldn’t have called. It’s just not me to burden myself with calls if I cannot give a hood.

No, I don’t treat my calls as, it’s the time of the day kinda call. In fact, it is very much the opposite. In fact it is like, it’s lunch now, after all that useless work, I can use a break. I WANNA make that call! I WANNA talk to my girl! If I need to sleep now, I WON’T make the call. Why?! Because I DON’T take it as a chore. I don’t force myself to call people I don’t like to. I WILLINGLY call my girl, because I love her. I make it a point to call her, EVEN for a minute at night before I sleep not because I make it a chore, but rather because I love her and I wanna listen to her sound at least a minute before I sleep.

I understand where you are coming from, but before you start advising me, please do know where I am coming from. Trust me or not, that is up to you. Your relationship has grown from 4 - 14 hours you said. With proper communication, people can still break. Without one, it’s hard to survive. It’s just humans. They start feeling the distance eventually and they eventually feel comfortable with someone closer to them at heart and whom they are able to spill to. Don’t trust me? It’s alright. Now, you think about it…

]]> By: fookiat http://www.alvinchong.net/2008/01/09/is-it-too-much-to-ask-for/#comment-1159 fookiat Tue, 22 Jan 2008 05:07:06 +0000 http://www.alvinchong.net/2008/01/09/is-it-too-much-to-ask-for/#comment-1159 yes, you are clingy, it shows that you're insecure.. communication should be spontaneous instead of a chore.. you don't want it to be like.. its that time of the day.. i need to make a call, its lunch... i need to make a call.. i need to sleep now.. i need to make a call kinda thing... just so you know.. i've been in a long distance relationship for four years where our distance have grown from a 4 hours trip to a 14 hours trip... now.. you think about it... yes, you are clingy, it shows that you’re insecure..

communication should be spontaneous instead of a chore..

you don’t want it to be like.. its that time of the day.. i need to make a call, its lunch… i need to make a call.. i need to sleep now.. i need to make a call kinda thing…

just so you know.. i’ve been in a long distance relationship for four years where our distance have grown from a 4 hours trip to a 14 hours trip… now.. you think about it…

]]> By: ahlost http://www.alvinchong.net/2008/01/09/is-it-too-much-to-ask-for/#comment-1137 ahlost Sun, 13 Jan 2008 09:16:23 +0000 http://www.alvinchong.net/2008/01/09/is-it-too-much-to-ask-for/#comment-1137 Even not LDR, I still think that there's a need to call your partner at least before you go to bed.. Or maybe an sms if really wanna save that few cents... Even not LDR, I still think that there’s a need to call your partner at least before you go to bed.. Or maybe an sms if really wanna save that few cents…

]]> By: Nicole http://www.alvinchong.net/2008/01/09/is-it-too-much-to-ask-for/#comment-1136 Nicole Sat, 12 Jan 2008 17:17:16 +0000 http://www.alvinchong.net/2008/01/09/is-it-too-much-to-ask-for/#comment-1136 because most guys i know find a problem to call everyday... lol because most guys i know find a problem to call everyday… lol

]]> By: Alvin Chong http://www.alvinchong.net/2008/01/09/is-it-too-much-to-ask-for/#comment-1135 Alvin Chong Sat, 12 Jan 2008 16:34:36 +0000 http://www.alvinchong.net/2008/01/09/is-it-too-much-to-ask-for/#comment-1135 <strong> Nicole: Why is that so? </strong>
Nicole: Why is that so?

]]> By: Nicole http://www.alvinchong.net/2008/01/09/is-it-too-much-to-ask-for/#comment-1124 Nicole Fri, 11 Jan 2008 18:50:45 +0000 http://www.alvinchong.net/2008/01/09/is-it-too-much-to-ask-for/#comment-1124 i wish there were more guys out there like you... i wish there were more guys out there like you…

]]>