Fate
Jan 31st, 2007 by Alvin Chong
Another boring, useless and a no brainer’s post, so ignore it if you wanna. Yea, the photos are dated, but standing on the balcony of the condo I am living in, looking down at the mamak stalls and the pool, I just can’t help but start thinking about my fate.
Sometimes I wonder if it really pays to believe in fate. I mean, I am a hardcore believer in fate yet sometimes, I wonder, if there is anything I can actually do to change fate. Being fated, most of the time, things do not go the way you want them to. So it is under circumstances like that you feel like changing fate.
Then again, I cannot say fate hadn’t brought me anything good. I mean, fate has brought me here to KL to work. Fate has also introduced me to friends that I thought I would have never known. For all I know, fate would eventually also bring me my counterpart in the near future. I never know.
Then again, fate had also caused me to lose my wallet. Fate had also caused me to wipe out the whole database in my company and fate had also dictated that I do not have a back up copy of the database I just wiped out. I would have quitted my current job about less than a month from now but fate dictated other wise.
It’s ironic how everything seems to be fated and in place. Some people were fated to die early and some fated to live a longer life. It seems as if our whole course of life has been predetermined and that there is nothing we can really do about it. We can attempt whatever we like to change our course of life but as fated, the outcome will still be the same.
I thought of opening a savings account with Hong Leong bank but finally decided on Maybank only to be told “I am sorry Sir, we do not allow opening of accounts with a temporary IC.†As you can all see, I am still clearly pissed at the classic, smart alec, brainless answer given to me. I finally reverted back to opening a Hong Leong bank account. Fated? You all be the judge.
It’s also ironic how when you are thinking about something or someone, god just seems to want to remind you about the things or person you’re thinking about. Where ever you go, you just seem to notice bits and pieces of things that relate to the thing or person you’re thinking. I have been thinking about this one person quite a lot lately, and where ever I go, I just seem to be reminded of that person. Things that weren’t there, or rather weren’t noticed before, just suddenly pop up before me and keep reminding me of the person. Coincidence? I just don’t buy it.
Life seems to be revolving around fate and my fate isn’t exactly good. So tell me guys, what is there to be done in order to change fate?
tukar fengshui? haha. once my sir told me that throwing coin in the sea will change bad luck to good ones. of course, there’re some procedure to be followed. lol.
how bout changing names? ok. i sound very superstitous. orang kuno. hahahhaha..
Nah.. everyone is supersticious…. I am as well u know?
u meet related stuff because like attracts like lah…
mind and emotion is endlessly affecting your reality u live in
u should learn to manifest
or at least get some good hypnosis CD for fate changing
curious… who is that “one person”? hahahaha…
Haiyo Rose, that one person is… *&!@#&!^@%…. hahahaha….
err.. i guess that u r falling… …for that ‘one person’!?
Hi there… err… errr… i guess…. errr… errr.. ahhaha… anyway, u r?
Hmmm………who is ‘that person’ hoh?!
um wait..just checking something
Hmm. I suggest you send out positive energy. Well, actually, if you believe in Fate, then don’t you also believe that Fate cannot be changed? If Fate could be changed, then it wouldn’t be called Fate would it? And if Fate cannot be changed, why are you trying so hard to change it? -grins- Still following? But what if tyring to change your Fate was actually part of your Fate? Ha, I’m just messing with your head..
The person thingy doesn’t surprise me. It just means you’re always thinking of that person, and everything you see remids you and connects to that person. It happens to everyone..not sure if that’s anything special, unless….unless they are SIGNS. But only if you believe that.
Ok, you agree that in order to change fate, you need to know what your fate is first right? So what is your fate? After that, there are some steps to take to change it. And I don’t have time right now to wite it. Actually, I don’t know if you’re even going to read this. So maybe I just wasted almost 1 min. writing this. …right…don’t mind that. Good luck